作者: John Gray
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关键词: Metaphor 、 Communication styles 、 Gray (horse) 、 Social psychology 、 Fell 、 Psychology 、 Conversation
摘要: Popular marriage counselor and seminar leader John Gray provides a unique, practical proven way for men women to communicate relate better by acknowledging the differences between them. Once upon time Martians Venusians met, fell in love, had happy relationships together because they respected accepted their differences. Then came earth amnesia set in: forgot were from different planets. Using this metaphor illustrate commonly occurring conflicts women, explains how these can come sexes prohibit mutually fulfilling loving relationships.Based on years of successful counseling couples, he gives advice counteract communication styles, emotional needs modes behavior promote greater understanding individual partners. shows react differently conversation are affected male intimacy cycles ('get close, ' 'back off'), female self-esteem fluctuations ('I'm okay, 'I'm not okay'). He encourages readers accept other gender's particular expressing helps learn fulfill one another's needs.With suggestions reduce conflict, crucial information interpret partner's methods preventing 'trash past' invading new relationships, "Men Are Mars, Women Venus" is valuable tool couples who want develop deeper more satisfying with