摘要: Women that are violating heterosexual norms for sexual desire will run into issues about identity. This study explores ways of dealing with identities seems to provide a workable solution women when they navigate and negotiate their lives as lesbians in society dominated by norms. The data sources therapeutic conversations followed-up interviews ten women. stories told these fail fit the phases categorizations traditional coming out model. In handling dilemmas, ambiguity be resource them. Their efforts solutions more accordance queer theory, between dichotomies homosexual/heterosexual, feminine/masculine, normality/deviance personal responsibility/coincidence.